Maybe they weren’t meant for us in the first place. The old sayings, “everything happens for a reason” and “everything works out for the best”, is what we hold on to. Our human aspect has to believe in something in those moments. The thought that it was right for us and it crumbled anyway doesn’t make any sense. If it was supposed to work, it would have. Right? The lesson in these moments is not that it collapsed. The thought that it was not meant to be is comforting, but aft